Relationship Break Up

A relationship break up is one of the most devastating emotional events that can happen to anyone. But you have to understand that all relationships are not meant to be. One may feel that they found their true soul mate, while the other is in love, at the moment. There is really such a thing as "love at first sight", and it does happen. But is it real for both persons?

Time tells all, and all relationships must weather the "getting to know you" time frame which can be one week or 5 years, or never! There is no particular reason why a relationship breaks up. There are as many reasons as there are people, but there are only a few basic problems that cause a relationship to end. Now you may ask what do I know about it. Well, let me say a few things about that.

I've been married for 41+ years. Yeah, you read that right, 41+ years. So I can say without question that there isn't much that my wife and I haven't been through. What I can say is that, in my own experience, the first 5 years are the most crucial. I feel that it takes that long to really know each other, but you can only get to know each other if you live together.

Living together is when you find out things about each other that can surprise you. So if your just a couple that dates for 5 years and don't live together, you may be in for a rude awakening if you get married after a few years, or if you decide to move in together. Because if that's the case, you can believe me that the learning of each other will just begin. This in itself can cause a relationship break up.
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